Mompreneur Challenges: Insomnia as a Sign?

Woman trying to sleepI am one of those “lucky” people that can suffer from a severe bout of insomnia now and again. Now, I don’t know about you, but, I have done everything in my power to follow all the sleep rules. Comfy bed, dim lights, no television while in bed, etc. And anyone who has ever suffered from insomnia will tell you absolutely none of that does a thing if your brain does not feel like shutting down at that time. As I am writing this, it is just after midnight. I went to bed hours ago and cannot seem to shut down enough to sleep.

Something that I have realized with this latest bout of insomnia is that (at least for me) I feel it might be a sign of major shifts happening in my life. When I stop and think about the other times I have had insomnia, it certainly fits that pattern. [Read more...]

There is No “I” in “Team”

iStock_000009970809XSmallThe other day I was explaining to my oldest son who plays youth football the implications of not doing well in school. I was pointing out to him that if he does not do well in school it affects his whole football team. This really confused him until I explained. If he does not do well in school, Dad and I will not allow him to go to football practice because school is always first. In tackle football, they will not allow you to play in a game if you have missed a practice during the week. If he cannot play in the game, it does not only affect him negatively, but now his whole team has to play without him. They are relying on him to come through on the field…and off. I will say his attitude changed almost immediately.

On the other hand, he also knows he is not alone. Anyone who has ever played football or known someone who has played football knows they tend to be a very tight knit group. When he is out on that field, every single one of those players and coaches has his back. With that kind of support, you feel like you can take anything down. I watched my 51 pound son this weekend bring down other players almost twice his size.

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Tooting Your Own Horn

cardWhen I was growing up, the thought of tooting your own horn had a negative connotation. People that did that were “full of themselves”, all they wanted to do was talk about themselves. However, I have been very open about the shifts I have been making personally. I also do not feel like I am alone. It seems as though the whole world is going through some major shifts due to many reasons both personally and globally.

One of the major shifts I have had is understanding that self promotion is not a bad thing. In fact, not only is it a good thing, but it is necessary to survive in climates like we are living in today. Now, no one likes someone that talks about themselves all the time, that just gets annoying. But if someone asks me what I do for a living, I am very proud to share what I do. If I happen to overhear someone talking about a problem I know I can help them with, I have no problem giving them my card and letting them know I can help if they would like it.

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Making the Harder Choice

Choices…One of the things that distinguishes us as humans is the fact that we are able to make choices. Have you ever noticed when you make the harder choice…eventually there is a great payoff? Like in poker, the more risk you take, the higher the payout? Now, I am not telling you all to start gambling, so, put those poker chips away. I am talking about life decisions.

Take me for example, I was meeting with a colleague today and discussing the fact that I could go out and easily make six figures with my education, experience and credentials. What a relief that would be to not have to worry about money anymore! But, would it really be a relief? Or would I really be miserable and feel like I had sold my soul to the devil in order to make more money?

In Good Times and Bad…

iStock_000000341045XSmall[1]Did you know that money is the number one cause for divorce!? I read that the other day and was shocked, but oddly not surprised. Some people say that money is the root of all evil and I counter with “only if you let it be”. In these times of financial crisis, it is important to pull together when it comes to money. Here are some practical steps to help you do that.

Set up a time to discuss finances with your spouse. The last time you want to discuss finances is when you are in a heated argument. A neutral time and place work best.

Have all of your paperwork at hand. You want to pull together bank statements, credit card statements, even your credit reports. This way you have all the pertinent information in front of you to have an intelligent conversation.

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